May 27, 2009

Meet My Friend, Micca Campbell, Author of An Untroubled Heart

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Hi friends,

My dear friend and Proverbs 31 sister, Micca Campbell, has written an amazing book, entitled An Untroubled Heart, that I want to share with you. Micca shines, truly shines, the love of Jesus. I remember meeting her for the first time a few years ago at She Speaks. We sat down and chatted for a while, and I remember never wanting it to end. Micca can make me laugh and cry all in the same few minutes. She is wise beyond her years and inspires me every time I hear her speak.

I have so much I want to tell you about Micca and her book, but she can say it much better. I asked her to share her heart about the book, so please read on……

Wendy, I wrote An Untroubled Heart because I have faced and survived every woman’s greatest fear…the death of her spouse. Through this experience, I became frightened of everything…the unknown future, the fear of being alone, and, I quickly became a fear-driven parent. I learned that our present day fears are fueled by our past experiences. While this is true, God doesn’t want us to go through the rest of our lives justifying our fears. Nor does He want us to live behind some protective wall that shields us from what might happen. God wants to teach us that it’s safe to trust Him. He alone is our peace. Even if we don’t have all the answers our past will never make sense until we invite God into our present. Then we will see He has been there all along. Such was the case with me…

I was living the fairy-tale dream. At nineteen, I was married. By the time I was twenty-one, God blessed my husband and I with a beautiful baby boy. Life was going like I had always planned for it to go—until the night tragedy struck.

Earlier one morning, Porter, my husband, had gone to my brother-in-law’s house to help him waterproof his basement. The day before, my brother-in-law had dug a seven-foot ditch around the foundation of the house with a backhoe so that Porter could apply the waterproofing substance to the outside wall. Realizing the substance was highly flammable, Porter felt confident that working outdoors would allow the fumes to escape preventing any danger. Unfortunately, as they worked the fumes mounted in the ditch. With only five feet left to finish, the outside heating and air conditioning unit clicked on igniting the fumes and the ditch exploded. The blast of fire left Porter and our brother-in-law badly burned over the majority of their bodies.

To prevent blood poisoning, the doctor preformed a procedure called skin grafting. The wait was long—longer than we were told the procedure would take. Later, the doctor, still in his surgical clothes, walked slowly into the waiting room with his head hung low and his shoulders slouched. No one spoke a word. He slowly bent down in front of my chair and began confirming my worst fears. “In the middle of surgery Porter went into cardiac arrest,” he explained as gently as he could. “His burned body was unable to withstand the trauma of surgery and it shut down.”
When the funeral was over and the people were gone, I found myself alone, a new mother, and a widow at the age of twenty-one. How would I get through this crisis? My dream had become a living nightmare from which I couldn’t escape. I felt deserted by my God and afraid of what my future held. I continually questioned. “Why would God betray me? Why didn’t Porter fight to live?” It wasn’t fair! This was not what I had planned.

My first step toward fearless living and learning to trust God again came when I chose to believe that I am never ever alone. God is always near me. Looking back, I realize the strength I felt in the midst of my suffering was God’s presence carrying me through the valley of death safely to the other side. Time and again when I felt lost and alone, God met me in my pain and carried me to new levels of grace. With each encounter, my future grew brighter and I was able to pick up the pieces of my shattered dream, and with God’s help, rebuilt my life.

Longing for others to know freedom from fear, I began to write. In a world today that give us cause to fear because of moral decline, terrorism, nuclear bombs, and the rise of natural disasters, most of us have wondered—“what’s the worst that could happen?” I address these questions in my book. The truth is there’s nothing new under the sun. They may come at us in a new way, but these things that cause anxiety are not out of the capable and trustworthy hands of our God.

In my book, I also discuss the fear of loneliness, rejection, abandonment, the fear of the unknown, and the pressures today on marriages, finances, and family. Plus, I write about the dangers of becoming a fear-driven parent. Sometimes, our fears drive our children down the road we are trying to avoid. I give a simple formula in my book on how we can determine if our fears are legitimate or not.

The main thread that runs through An Untroubled Heart is that we were created to live by faith not fear. Fear was introduced to us in the garden in a form of a lie. That lie says we can be our own god. However, when you and I attempt to live life apart from God’s presence and provision, the result is fear. You and I are simply not enough. I didn’t have to tell you that, did I?
Every since we left the garden, God has been calling us back to live as He created us to live—as carefree children living in the care of our heavenly Father. It’s God’s desire, along with mine, that our lives be marked by faith, joy, peace, and freedom. I believe my book, that has a study guide at the end of each chapter, will lead you to a life of faith where fearless living is a reality.

God, indeed, is faithful. Today, I’m remarried. I have two more beautiful children, a ministry that allows me to touch thousands, and a heart that believes my God is good in all things.

Thank you, Micca, for sharing your heart with us today. Micca’s book, An Untroubled Heart, will leave you changed forever. To learn more about Micca and her book, please visit Micca’s blog at http://www.miccacampbell.com/. You can buy An Untroubled Heart at http://www.proverbs31.org/.

We are going to give a copy of Micca’s book away. So please leave a comment to be entered to win a copy of An Untroubled Heart.

Comments

  1. JD says:

    You know, that is my biggest fear – losing my husband. As I read this story again, I can see how selfish my fear is. I am afraid of the pain, of the uncertainty, afraid of having to do it all myself, of wondering how I would survive…All my thoughts are about me. The LORD has shown me yet again how self-centered I am. LORD, I surely don’t want this to happen, but at the same time, I want to surrender this fear to YOU. Thanks for the reminder again.

    JD
    sweettea.n.ice@gmail.com

  2. Joy in The Truth says:

    Excited about Micca’s book! While reading this post, a few friends came to mind that I am going to give the book to as well! :)

    Micca, thank you for sharing this…you help hold open the door of faith and freedom v. fear.

    Hugs,
    Shron

  3. Gina says:

    Reading about Micca’s book brought back many memories for me after losing my husband and looking back knowing that God is in control..Thank you
    Gina

  4. Tina says:

    Thanks for sharing Micca’s story. I would love to read her book! It is so true….God is always in control.

    Tina

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  6. Kate says:

    While I have many issues, fear isn’t my main one. I know so many people for whom it’s an enormous problem, and I thought of one in particular who could benefit from this book. Thank you, Wendy, for introducing us to Micca, and to you Micca, for putting your heart out there for us all to learn from.

  7. Cheri' says:

    Such a tragedy for a young wife and mother, and yet such a powerful testimony of God’s grace, provision and deliverance!Thank you Wendy for introducing Micca to us and to her book. It deeply touched my heart!

  8. Kristie says:

    Wow, Micca’s story really spoke to me. It’s amazing what the Lord can bring us through. Thank you for the reminder.

    krpoovey@charter.net

  9. awcamp says:

    Thank you for sharing Micca’s story — a powerful reminder that God is with us even when we feel most alone. I look forward to reading her book.

  10. artsyclay says:

    A dear friend recently lost her husband of 40 years. Young or old, it is never easy. Thanks for sharing that God will give His comfort when we need it.
    I heard just a few minutes of your testimony on WMIT this morning and was very touched.

  11. Anonymous says:

    I would like to join the online bible study…my email is godzblondie@hotmail.com

    Thanks I am new to a online bible study can you inform me of how it goes? Is it live or is it like a forum

  12. Loretta says:

    Reading Micca’s story remindedme of God’s faithfulness in Catherine Marshall’s story after her husband passed away. It is amazing how God uses our brokeness to help so many others. I didnt realize how many areas fear was affecting me until I read Micca’s story. Thanks so much for posting it. I’d love to read her book. Thanks also for offerieng your online bible study. I plan on signing up.
    Blessings,
    Loretta

  13. Jessica B says:

    I just want to first truly Thank all of the Proverbs 31 Women for taking the time and obedience to write their stories and allow us to see their walk with GOD through their eyes. Your words have been deeply touching as it has been written with utmost love, compassion, and laughter that is greatly needed in the current world system. It seems that as we continue to live in these days and the world systems way of living continues to fail in obtaining complete wholeness, your words and life experiences (especially Micca’s) has been a true inspiration to continue to equip ourselves with God’s anointing and love in order to continue our lives in a failing world system. I have been spiritually touched by all the women of Proverbs 31 and just want to extend my heartfelt THANK YOU to you all! Keep up the Wonderful work you all are doing, and God’s Blessings for being faithful in your walk of Faith even when the chips seem stacked up against you. I cannot wait to read Micca’s story as well as yours too Wendy. God Bless and Love

    Your Sister in Christ,

    Jessica B

  14. Wendy Blight says:

    Jessica,

    Wow, what a sweet blessing to read this tonight!! I will copy and paste this into an e-mail for my P31 sisters. It will be such an encouragement.

    There are times we miss birthdays, baseball games, and times out with girlfriends to attend a retreat or speaking engagement. Those times are hard on us and our families…and words like yours show us that God is at work, blessing the little sacrifices we make.

    Thank you for such precious and heartfelt words.

    Blessings,

    Wendy

  15. Micca says:

    Wendy, thank you for the opprotunity to share my heart and story with these women. You are such a treasured friend. I love your dearly and I’m honored to know and serve along side of you!!
    Good luck with your bible study. Girls, you will learn much from this godly woman!

    Also, I want to thank each of you who left a comment. I believe part of our healing comes when we are able to comfort others as we’ve been comforted by our heavenly Father. Each of you are an encouragement to us at Proverbs 31. We value you, your struggles, and your lives. We also appreciate your support. Your prayers enable us to keep pressing on. thank you and God bless!

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