December 18, 2012

Closing Message “So That” and Giveaway Winners

Closing Message “So That” On-Line Study

Sweet friends, thank you for sharing your verses and “so that” messages this week.  What a blessing it has been to journey through this study with you!

I love how so many of you are praying for strength and for ways to live a “so that” life.  We live our lives with the promise tucked away deep in our hearts that one day CHRIST IS COMING BACK!!

He came first as a Savior, but His Word promises that He will come again.

For as lightening that comes from the east is visible even in the west, so will be the coming of the Son of Man…At that time the sign of the Son of Man will appear in the sky, and all the nations of the earth will mourn. They will see the Son of Man coming on the clouds of the sky, with power and great glory. And he will send his angels with a loud trumpet call, and they will gather his elect from the four winds, from one end of the heavens to the other. Matthew 24:27, 30-31

The next time He will return as a Judge, a Warrior and a King.

I saw heaven standing open and there before me was a white horse, whose rider is called Faithful and True. With justice he judges and makes war. His eyes are like blazing fire, and on his head are many crowns. He has a name written on him that no one knows but himself. He is dressed in a robe dipped in blood, and his name is the Word of  God. The armies of heaven were following him, riding on white horses and dressed in fine linen, white and clean. Out of his mouth comes a sharp sword with which to strike down the nations. He will rule them with an iron scepter. He treads the winepress of the fury of the wrath of God Almighty. On his robe and on his thigh he has this name written: KING OF KINGS AND LORD OF LORDS. Revelation 19:11-16

Christ is coming back, my friends. When He does, it will not be quietly. Every eye will see. Every ear will hear. Every nation will fear. Every knee will bow. And every tongue will confess that He is Lord.

How this will happen? We cannot fathom. What will it sound like? We do not know. What will it feel like? We cannot imagine. When will it be? The date is not known.

But we are told one thing. We must be ready. Our final “so that” comes from Luke 12.

Be dressed ready for service and keep your lamps burning, like men waiting for their master to return from a wedding banquet, so that when he comes and knocks they can immediately open the door for him. Luke 12:35-36

In Jesus’ time, Jewish weddings were held at night. The bridegroom’s servants would wait late into the night for their master to return home with his bride. The servants never knew the exact time of the arrival, but they would never make the master wait, so they stood, with their robes girded up, ready to welcome and serve them as soon as they arrived.

We are to do the same. We are to keep our lamps burning.

Remember our memory verse for this week? It says to let our light shine before men. We are to continually let our lights shine by loving and serving others. We are not to “let up” because the master is away.

Living this way keeps us close to the heart of God. It ensures that we are continually looking and listening for His voice, for ways He can minister to and use us. He desires that we have an acute awareness of His presence 24/7. By living this way, we will not be caught off guard when He comes. We will be ready.

Luke 12:37 (NIV) says,

It will be good for those servants whose master finds them watching when he comes. Truly I tell you, he will dress himself to serve, will have them recline at the table and will come and wait on them.

I could barely take in the words as I read the end of this verse. It says that when the Master returns, those He finds ready and waiting will recline at a table and He will wait on them. Remember in the Jewish tradition, the servants treated the bride and groom like royalty. The servants served them. It would never be expected that the groom would serve the staff. Yet Luke tells us that our King, the King of kings and Lord of lords, will minister to His faithful servants. He will reward the ready and faithful ones. The Master reverses the roles. He will serve the servants!

This verse gives us another message as well. It is yet another message to “be alert,” “to watch.” We are not to be caught by surprise by the Lord’s Second Coming. He has told us He will come. He will be like a thief, unannounced and unexpected. But He will come. (Matthew 24:43; 1 Thessalonians 5:2). Matthew 24:36 tells us that no one knows the day or hour, not even the Son, but only the Father.

We must be ready!

We have spent five weeks studying God’s call to “Living So That…” We have completed “Calls to Action.” These are ways we can be working in the wait. Friend, we must be about God’s business so that we can be found faithful when He comes again. Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 4:2,

So then, men ought to regard us as servants of Christ and as those entrusted with the secret things of God. Now it
is required that those who have been given a trust must prove faithful.

God desires readiness and faithfulness. Let us make it our heart’s desire to live in this ready state so that we will be found faithful upon His return.

Remember and never forget BLESSINGS follow OBEDIENCE!!!

Now to announce our Christmas Giveaway Winners.  Please e-mail me at deuteronomysix@aol.com with your full name and mailing address.

Melissa Waters posted on December 11 at 1:28 pm – Target Gift Card

Mattie C posted on December 12 at 8:44 am – Target Gift Card

Sabrina posted on December 13 at 12:01 pm -Target Gift Card

Judy Redden posted on December 13 at 5:18 am – P31 Gift

KarenG posted on December 14 at 6:01 am – P31 Gift

Sweet Christmas Blessings to you,

December 11, 2012

Living So That: Lesson Five

Give So That

We have reached the final week of our study! Writing this study has been both rewarding and challenging. When I sat down to write, I wondered how it would ever come together…so many topics, so many verses, so many truths. But God was faithful.  He took every prayer whispered, every hour researched, and every Scripture studied and faithfully supplied the words needed to create Living “So That.”   Thank you from the depths of my heart for the time you have invested with me these past weeks.

This is always a sad time for me as I will miss our weekly God appointment here on Living Truth. But it is also a time of celebration as I look back over the weeks and see what amazing things God has done through our time together. Your comments each week have blessed me beyond measure.  We have learned from each other, prayed with each other and gone deeper still in our walk with Jesus.  I will miss you, so please stop by when you have time and let me know how you are and what God is doing in your life.

Don’t forget about our new group called Wendy’s Street Team.  I would love for you to team up with me for the publication of our “Living So That” project and future Bible study projects.  To become a member, e-mail me at deuteronomysix@aol.com and put “Wendy’s Street Team” in the subject heading and include your name, e-mail address, cell phone, city and state.  My dear friend and assistant, Lisa Sheltra, will be helping me coordinate this effort.  We will have many fun ways for the Street Team to participate and help promote new projects, including sneak peaks at new studies and special perks as the time for publication draws near.  

I changed my mind on what we will study this week.  Instead of forgiveness and humility, we will study giving and humility.  Not sure why, but that is the direction the Lord led my heart, so that is what we will do.  I trust Him fully!!!

Before we begin, I have some fun news to share.  Christmas is my favorite time of year, and I LOVE to give gifts.  So this week, please share your favorite verse (any verse…not just memory verse) from this study or your favorite verse in general.  Please share WHY it is your favorite too.  I will choose five names to win a $20 Target gift card or a $15 gift credit to Proverbs 31 Ministries to go toward a purchase of your choice and pay for the shipping. You let me know which gift you would like to receive.

Join me next week for a closing message for our study and the announcement of our winners!

Video Lesson

This Week’s Memory verse

Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty right hand, that he may life you up in due time. 1 Peter 5:6

This Week’s Prayer

Father, thank You for this precious time in Your Word.  Thank You for all You have taught me these past five weeks through Your living and active Word. Help me not to forget a single “so that” or a single “call to action.”  Keep them tucked away in my heart, ready to recall at anytime.  As I move forward from this day, I pray the following…

for a humble, submissive and obedient heart that seeks to please You and do Your will in all things

for a deep reverence for You and Your Word

for willingness and strength to endure trials, watching and listening for Your Word and Your work in the midst, trusting that You will work all things together for good because I love You and am called according to Your purpose

for a heart that seeks to do good, and expects nothing in return

for a heart willing to sacrifice whatever it is you may ask of me

for a contentedness with my circumstances, trusting you will provide for my every need

for a heart of prayer

for wisdom and discernment to be aware of the evil one and his tactics and to know and understand Truth so that I can take every lie captive to the obedience of Christ

for a desire to live my life every day SO THAT I can shine Your Light into Your broken and hurting world

I ask all this in Jesus’ most precious and powerful name.  AMEN

Homework Questions

One of the Old Testament (Hebrew) names of God is Yahweh Yireh  (Jehovah Jireh).  In the Hebrew it means “Jehovah will see (to it).”

The Hebrew word raah (RA-ah, from which yireh is derived) means “to see, to observe, to perceive.” When raah is used as part of God’s name, it is translated “provide.” Since God is omniscient (all knowing) and able to see the future as well as the past and the present, He is able to anticipate and provide for what is needed. Interestingly, the English Word “provision” is made up of two Latin words that mean “to see beforehand.” What God tells us in His name, Jehovah Jireh, is that when we pray to Him, we are praying to our God Who sees our situation beforehand, knows exactly what we need, and will provide.

A. In what ways has Jehovah Jireh provided for you?

 

Genesis 22 contains one of the most well-known Jehovah-Jireh stories in Scripture.

B. Read Genesis 22:1-19

God had promised Abraham a son at the age of one hundred years of age. Listen to God’s words to Abraham before his son was born.

Look up at the heavens and count the stars – if indeed you can count them.” Then he said to him, “So shall your offspring be. Genesis 5:5

I will make you into a great nation and I will bless you; I will make your name great, and you will be a blessing. I will bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse; all the peoples on earth will be blessed through you. Genesis 12:1-2

…your wife Sarah will bear you a son, and you will call him Isaac. I will establish my covenant with him as an everlasting covenant for his descendants after him. Genesis 17:19

After Isaac was born, God came to Abraham again. This time He commanded Abraham to take his son, the son God had promised him at one hundred years of age, and go up on a mountain and sacrifice him.

1. What do you think Abraham was thinking as he traveled up the mountain?

My first question would have been: I love this child so much; how can I possibly take my own son’s life? But a more pressing and confusing question would have been, Why would You ask me to sacrifice the very child through whom You promised to give me many descendants?

If Abraham killed Isaac, how would God’s promise be fulfilled?

Make no mistake about it, this was a test. Scripture plainly says in Genesis 22:1 “Some time later, God tested Abraham.” It was a very real test designed to prove Abraham’s faith. God asked him what seemed illogical and impossible  to give his son, Isaac, back to God.

Yes, Abraham had another son, Ishmael. But God had asked him to send Ishmael away because Isaac was the son of the promise. Now God was asking him to sacrifice his only remaining son. This was a true test of whether Abraham trusted God’s promise and whether that trust was enough to cause him to obey.

2. What would you have done? Explain.

Thinking about my own sweet blonde hair, blue-eyed, tenderhearted boy, I don’t think I would have passed that test. I am certain I would have clung to my son for dear life and run the other way.

Don’t think God did not know what He was asking. God knew how special Isaac was to Abraham. Listen to God’s words:

Take your son, your only son, Isaac, whom you love, and go to the region of Moriah. Sacrifice him there as a burnt offering. Genesis 22:2 (emphasis mine)

Abraham, light your son on fire and watch him burn. That is what God was asking of Abraham. Knowing this makes Abraham’s response staggering, unimaginable even, to most parents. He exhibited immediate and unquestioning obedience.

3. Read Abraham’s response in verses 3-9.

How could Abraham make such a choice so quickly? It is called faith, my friend. Our level of faith determines our response to God when He asks something of us. How we respond is overwhelming evidence of how strong our faith really is. Abraham’s story is a powerful message of faith. It reveals the kind of faith that pleases God the kind of faith He blesses mightily.

4. Read Hebrews 11:17-19.  How did Abraham reconcile God’s command to sacrifice Isaac in his heart?

Abraham resolved in his heart long before that day to trust God. So when God spoke that day, Abraham did what he had learned to do – trust God to honor His promises. God made a covenant with Abraham, and Isaac was the fulfillment of that Covenant. Abraham reasoned that if God took Isaac, He would provide another way for that promise to be fulfilled.

Imagine being present for this conversation between father and son in Genesis 22:

Isaac asked, “Father, where is the lamb for the burnt offering?” (v. 7)

He responded, “God himself will provide the lamb…my son.”  He believed God would provide. (v.8)

They continued their walk together. Still no provision.

The next few passages are unbearable to read.

Abraham “bound his son Isaac.” Still no provision. (v. 9)

He “laid him on the altar, on top of the wood.” Still no provision. (v. 9)

Then he reached out his hand and took the knife “to slay his son.” Still no provision. (v. 10)

5. What are you feeling right now?

 

Finally, an angel of the Lord called out to Abraham from heaven, “Abraham, Abraham, do not lay a hand on the boy. Do not do anything to him.” (v. 11)

Still no provision, but a Word from the Lord.

6. What were the next words of the angel of the Lord? (v.12)

 

Yes, this was a test. The angel of the Lord said, “Now I know that you fear God because you have not withheld from me your son, your only son.” (v. 12)

Abraham then looked up and saw a ram in the thicket. God had finally provided.

The reason we are studying this story comes in the next passage:

He went over and took the ram and sacrificed it as a burnt offering instead of his son. Abraham called this place The Lord Will Provide. And to this day it is said, “On the mountain of the Lord it will be provided. (v. 13-14)

God began a covenant relationship that day with Abraham, a relationship that extends to us today. He promised that He would provide whatever it is we need. Not what we want, but what we need.

The life of faith to which God calls us is not an easy one, friend. Like Noah, Abraham, David, Steven, and Paul, we may be called to make some heartrending decisions, to walk a path we would rather not walk. The question for us at that point is on what or on whom will we fix our confidence? These men all fixed it securely on God. Stories like Abraham’s teach us that faith does not require an explanation. Faith rests on God’s promises.

7.  What is one of the most difficult sacrifices the Lord has asked of you?  How did you respond?  How did He provide?

 

God ended His visit with Abraham on Mount Moriah, confirming His covenant with Abraham:

I swear by myself, declares the Lord, that because you have done this and have not withheld your son, your only son, I will surely bless you and make your descendants as numerous as the stars in the sky and as the sand on the
seashore. Genesis 22:16-17a

God showered blessings upon Abraham for his obedience. God gave him great favor (v.12); God gave him back his son (v. 13); Abraham learned a new name for God, and he received new assurances from God (v. 16-18). That is how our God works. He promises that blessings follow obedience.

8. Fill in the blank and memorize it:  ________________________ follow ____________________________________.

 

B. Read the following verses and share the truths and/or promises you find.

1. 2 Corinthians 9:8

2. 2 Corinthians 9:11

3. 1 Timothy 6:18-19

4. 2 Corinthians 8:9.  What are the first three words of this verse?

 

“For you know.”  Friend, this should be our starting point every time we take a step of faith.  There is nothing God will ask of us that He will not, in turn, provide.  He provides because He not only wants to build our faith but also wants to ensure that we have everything we need to accomplish His purposes and do His Kingdom work.

***** If you want to go deeper, read Job 42:2, Jeremiah 32:17, Matthew 19:26, Luke 1:37, and 2 Timothy 1:12.  How do they encourage you in our discussion today? *****

C.  Is there a place in your life God is asking you to give (time, gifts, finances) and you are hesitating?  Why are you hesitating? Spend some time with the stories, promises and truths we have studied this week and see what you hear from God.  Journal it and share it.

 

We will end our time together talking about humility.

D.  Define humility.

 

Jeremy Taylor, a 17th century ordained priest and prolific writer, gives this insight  about humility:

“Humility begins as a gift from God, but it is increased as a habit as we develop it.”

Paul taught us in an earlier lesson that God’s power operates most powerfully and effectively in our weakness.

1. What do the following stories teach you about the kind of person God uses to do His Kingdom work?

a. Moses – Exodus 3:1-15, 4:1-17

b. Gideon – Judges 6

c. David – 1 Samuel 16:1-13

 

E. Read 1 Corinthians 1:26-29 and 1 Peter 5:5b-6.

1. Who does the Lord choose (1 Cor. 1:27-28)

2. God does this “so that…?” (1 Cor. 1: 29)

3. Write 1 Peter 5:5b-6 below.

 

“Clothe” is from the Greek word egkomboomai and means “to gird oneself with a thing, to be clothed with.”  ”Gird” means “to encircle or bind with a belt or band; to surround; enclose; hem in.”

We see this same word in John 13:4 when Jesus washed the feet of his disciples: “He riseth from supper, and laid aside his garments; and took a towel, and girded himself.” John 13:4 (KJV) Jesus performed a task normally reserved for the role of a servant, washing feet. Before He began, He removed His outer garments and wrapped a towel around His waist. He modeled servanthood for His disciples.

Peter used the word “gird” here to teach us that just as Jesus laid aside His outer garments and put on a towel to become a servant, so each of us should “put on” a servant’s attitude and minister to each other. Jesus modeled for us that humility is not demeaning ourselves; it is simply not thinking of ourselves at all!

“Humility” is from the Greek word tapeinophrosune, defined as “a virtue, a fruit of the gospel, that exists when a person through most genuine self-evaluation deems himself worthless.” It stresses not so much our sinfulness but our possessing nothing being absolutely dependent on God.

F. Read Philippians 2:1-11.  What is the biblical definition of humility given here.  

 

Humility will never be a reality in our lives until we first humble ourselves before God. We must fully submit every area to Him, holding back nothing. The willingness to submit comes when we realize that we are the recipients of God’s undeserved gift of grace. Without grace, we have no hope beyond eternal damnation. We are sinners, condemned to a life of eternal separation from God. It is God’s grace that saves us from the fiery pit of hell.

1. Think of a few people in your life who live a life exemplified by humility and write their names below.

 

2.  What evidence of humility do you see in their lives?

 

3. At the beginning of this discussion, Jeremy Taylor told us that humility is a habit to be developed.  What are some ways you can develop this habit in your own life?

 

4. Prayerfully look over your list.  Is there an area in which you need to work?  Ask God to help you develop this godly virtue in your life.

 

G.  Read 1 Peter 5:6. What is the great “so that” when we do walk in humility?

 

“Exalt” means “to elevate, lift up.”

The key phrase in this promise is found in the words “in due time.” God will not exalt us until we are ready. Sometimes waiting precedes the “lifting up.” We see examples of this throughout Scripture. Jesus endured years of rejection, persecution and the cross before He sat down at the right hand of God. Moses endured times of isolation, persecution and trials before God used him to deliver the Jews. Joseph suffered persecution, wrongful imprisonment and separation from family and friends before God elevated him to the throne. David waited decades, enduring numerous trials and tribulations, including attempts on his life, before God crowned him King of Judah.

Humility requires patience. But in the end, our patience will be well rewarded. We find this promise in Jesus’ own words in John 13:15-17:

I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. I tell you the truth, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him. Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.

My Final Call to Action

We have learned much. Please don’t let your time in the Word end here. Stay in God’s Word. Continue your search for more “so that’s.” And most importantly, follow through with your “Calls to Action.”

God specially designed each one of us to do Kingdom work. We have God-given gifts and talents, assigned to us before time began, to enable us to do that work. (Ephesians 2:10) Living according to the ”so that” verses is God’s way of guiding us toward those plans. He will use these verses to point us in the direction He is leading.

Heather, believe I saved you so that…

Charlotte, believe my Word so that…

Noelle, pray so that…

Peggy, trust me in this trial so that…

Jill, live out my Word on this earth so that…

Susan, give so that…

Melissa, serve so that…

Cheri, obey so that…

Eloisa, teach so that…

Our “so that’s” will vary, but the way He works them in our lives is the same. He starts with commands that require small steps of obedience. And when we are faithful with these, He will ask more of us. Each step calls us out of our comfort zones to go deeper still with him whether it be trusting in Him for salvation, trusting in Him to honor His Word, trusting Him in prayer, trusting Him in a trial, or trusting Him to live our faith out loud for all to see. And with each step God promises rewards and blessings. (Hebrews 11:6)

After spending the last five weeks with God and the call to “Living So That…,” what is your final call to action?  Choose one GIANT step of obedience you want to take for God.

Meet you back here next week for a final message and to announce our Christmas gift winners.  I will be praying for you throughout the week.  Stop by and share your comments!

Blessings,

December 3, 2012

Living So That: Lesson Four

 Loving “Difficult” People So That…

If you are visiting from my Proverbs 31 Devotion, welcome!  We are so thankful you stopped by for a visit.  For my on-line study girls, I am posting our lesson a day early since I have a Proverbs 31 Devotion running today.

I am especially excited you stopped by today because I have exciting news!

I  am praising God for His faithfulness and  overjoyed to announce our “Living So That” study will be available in published form!  I can’t quite share all the details yet as they are in the works, but I am so excited for what the future holds!!   

We are forming a new group called Wendy’s Street Team.  I would love for you to team up with me for this “Living So That” project and future Bible study projects.  To become a member, e-mail me at deuteronomysix@aol.com and put “Wendy’s Street Team” in the subject heading and include your name, e-mail address, cell phone, city and state.  My dear friend and assistant, Lisa Sheltra, will be helping me coordinate this effort.  We will have many fun ways for the Street Team to participate and help promote new projects, including sneak peaks at new studies and special perks as the time for publication draws near.   

Also, next Tuesday we will have a fun Christmas Giveaway.  Please stop by next week for a chance to enter!  

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God’s timing is always perfect.  Proverbs 31 Ministries schedules our devotionals months in advance, yet my devotion today coincides perfectly with our “Living So That” lesson.  Our theme this week addresses relationships, more specifically, how to love “difficult” people so that people will see and meet Jesus in us. Be sure to listen to the video to discover why “difficult” is in quotation marks!

Now let’s move on to Lesson Four of Living So That:  Our Call to Action.

God calls us to live a life of love in John 13:34-35,

A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.

What is at stake is the way the world sees God.  We are God’s people, His ambassadors.  When we demonstrate love in this world, we give the world a compelling picture of God…one that draw them to Him and not away.  This week’s lesson shares truths that enable us to live out this life of love to which God calls each and every one of us.

The video below goes a bit deeper into the nuggets of truth shared in my Proverbs 31 devotional and in our homework.

Let’s get started!

Video Lesson

This Week’s Memory verse

You are the light of the world…let your light shine before men, [so] that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven. Matthew 5:16

This Week’s Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank You for Your faithfulness to walk with me through these lessons.  You have poured Truth into my heart and mind.  You have given me a Spirit of Knowledge and Revelation to understand Your Word and apply it in my life.  You have convicted and refined me.  I am so thankful for this precious time in Your word.  Now that my study is nearing the end, lead me to my next steps with You. give me a hunger and thirst for more of You and more of Your Word.  Open doors for me to live out what I have learned.  I want to live a “so that” life.  Give me the courage to obey my “Calls to Action.” Use me, Lord, to make a difference in Your Kingdom.  Instruct me daily in the way I should go. Keep my eyes fixed on You.  Give me opportunities to share the Hope I have in You and to share the truths and promises found in Your living and active Word.  I love you, Lord, and ask all this in Jesus’ name.  Amen.

Homework Questions

Jesus says, “I am the Light of the World.” (John 8:12). Why does He call Himself “Light?” Remember Jesus came to earth not only to redeem us but also to reveal God to man. He often used the physical to speak of the spiritual. Just before this declaration, Jesus had exposed the sin of the scribes and Pharisees who brought the woman guilty of adultery before Him to see how she should be punished. When He pointed out their sin and showed them they were just as guilty as she, they fled. They thought their sin was hidden. But nothing is hidden from the eyes of God.

We do not have Jesus physically in our midst, so how do we experience the “Light of the World” today?

A.  Read the following passages to answer the above question and share what you find: 

1. Psalm 19:7-11

2. Psalm 119:105

3. Psalm 119:130

4. Proverbs 2:1-8

5. Proverbs 6:23

 

6. Has the Word of God been a source of light in your life?  Have you noticed a connection between times of darkness/sin and your time in the Word?

 

 

To live in the light means being real with God. It requires surrender, confession, repentance and obedience. We must continually expose our hearts and minds to His Word. While there, we must allow Him to teach us new ways to think and act.

Letting our light shine before men requires a new way of thinking and acting. It means bringing our thoughts and actions in line with God’s Word.  Romans 12:2, another “so that” verse, says,

Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is —his good, pleasing and perfect will. Romans 12:2

The Voice Bible says it this way:

Do not allow this world to mold you in its own image. Instead, be transformed from the inside out by the renewing
of your mind. As a result you will be able to discern what God wills and whatever God finds good, pleasing, and
complete.

B. What is the world’s image?

 

1. List some ways the world “molds” us into its image?

 

2. What are some ways you are being molded into the world’s image?

 

Conform, as used here, means “to fashion or shape one thing like another.” Paul warns us not to conform our lives to the lifestyle of the present age in which we live. We go along with our friends so we will not miss out or be left out. We say “yes” to things when we know we should say “no.” We engage in conversations that tear others down rather than build them up. We watch television shows and movies that we know are displeasing to the Lord. Eventually, we become so accustomed to the ways of the world that we think they’re normal.

Paul states that rather than conform, we are to be “transformed” by the renewing of our minds. The Greek verb translated “transformed” (metamorphoo) is seen in the English word “metamorphosis,” a biological change whereby a caterpillar becomes a butterfly. One creature enters the cocoon and a totally different creature emerges. Metamorphosis results in a total change from the inside out, and for believers, the key to this transformation is our minds.

“Mind” here is the Greek word nous. It denotes the control center of our attitudes, thoughts, perceptions, judgments, emotions and actions. If the Holy Spirit is to have control over us, He must control our minds as well as our hearts. This is why Paul calls us to continually renew our minds.

C. List some ways we can renew our minds.  Look up the following passages and share what they speak to this issue.

1. Psalm 119:9-11

2. Philippians 2:5-7

3. Philippians 2:14-16

4. Philippians 4:6-8

5. Colossians 3:1-2

 

With the renewal of our minds comes life transformation. We trade our old patterns of selfishness and self-centeredness for the Kingdom values we studied above. We no longer consider ourselves first. We begin to put others’ needs before our own. We want to please Christ and not ourselves.

Life transformation prompts “so that” living.

D.  Is there someone to whom God is asking you to reach out and shine His Light?  If you are hesitating, ask God to help you step out in faith and begin a conversation.  This will look different for each of us, depending upon our situation.  Pray for opportunity.  Pray for that person’s heart to be prepared.  I will be praying this week for God to be faithful as you step out in obedience to shine your light.

 

God loves us unconditionally and calls us to love others in the very same way.  Of course, our fallen nature makes it impossible for us to do this on our own.  I love this quote I found while researching this topic:

“Walk in the power of the Truth that the name of the Lord God may be glorified among you, his renown may be seen in you and among you, and all the world may be astonished.”  George Fox, leader of the Quakers.

The key to loving the unlovable, difficult people in our lives…those who hurt, betray, and disappoint us…is God’s Word. Whatever our calling, wherever God has placed us, He calls us to live a life set apart…to let our lights shine so that God maybe seen and glorified.  Can you think of a more powerful way to bring God glory than to love the unlovable, difficult, frustrating people in our lives.

E.  Share what the following verses teach you about love:  Philippians 1:9, 1 Thessalonians 3:12, Ephesians 3:17b-19, John 13:34-35.

 

 

F.  Read Galatians 5:22.  From where does love come?

 

Love is a fruit of the Holy Spirit. When we declare our love for God; confess our sin; repent of our sin, and turn our lives over to Christ, He seals us with His Holy Spirit. (2 Corinthians 1:22) He indwells our hearts. The old is gone and the new has come. (2 Corinthians 5:17) God begins to produce His fruit in us. God, through the power of His Holy Spirit, deposits His love in our hearts. (Galatians 5:22)

When His love comes alive in us, faith takes root. That faith expresses itself in love. And the deeper our faith, the deeper our ability to love.

How does our faith and, in turn, our love grow deeper? Romans 10:17 says, “Faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word of Christ.” Consequently, the more we expose our hearts to His Word (the message), the more our faith grows. As faith deepens, the Holy Spirit gives us confidence and enables us to take the message we hear and live it out in love.

Friend, if we want more of God’s love, we must pray for it. We must also dig deeper in His Word, inviting Him to teach us how to love others. We must then meditate on what He reveals and tuck it in our hearts. Exercising these spiritual disciplines will enable us to love others the way God and Jesus love us.

G. Read the following passages and share what they teach about loving others:

1. Ephesians 4:29

2. Ephesians 4:31

3. Ephesians 4:32

4. Ephesians 5:1

5. Colossians 4:6

6. Hebrews 3:13

7. James 4:11-12

8. 1 Peter 2:1

But the truth is, loving people this way is just plain hard, especially when it comes to difficult people. But are they really difficult people? Beth Moore defines them a bit differently. She wrote in her book, The Beloved Disciple: Following John to the Heart of Jesus, such people are not really “difficult people;” rather they are people we find difficult. Meaning, just because we find them difficult to love does not mean they’re difficult. It could be the problem is with us and not them.

Loving others requires humility. We will spend more time on this subject next week. But for today we will examine humility as it relates to love. If we find ourselves angry with or hurt by another, before we let loose with our tongue, we should examine our own heart. It may be God is working on our heart, not theirs. God will always deal with us first. His plan is to transform us into the image of His Son, and that requires getting rid of that in us which does not reflect His image. When we submit to that refining and allow God to change our hearts, we will be able to love the unlovely.

But there will be times where the one with whom we are struggling may really be difficult. It is then that we must pull from the truths we studied above. We must love with a love beyond ourselves. We must draw from God’s love. God’s love is agapao. This kind of love is a deliberate choice. The other love is phileo. It is a preference and based more on feelings. It develops as we get to know someone.

To love the unlovable, means making a deliberate choice to love someone despite how we feel about her. This cannot be done in our own strength. It can only be done by drawing from the agapao love within us. It necessitates will over emotion. It helps to remember that we too were at one time unlovely and difficult, enemies of God. Yet He loved us and gave His only Son for us.  Romans 5:5 says,

And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit whom he has given us.

Loving someone that is unlovable or difficult challenges us to live beyond what we can do in and through our own strength. It requires that we press into God. It requires a conscious decision to rid our hearts and minds of all toxic thoughts regarding the person and replace them with the truths of Scripture. When we empty ourselves this way, we are available to be filled with more of His Spirit and thus, able to choose words and actions that reflect love not hate.

H. The New Testament contains over 50 commands to love.  Read Romans 12:9-18.  Paul defines love for us. Identify the various facets of the kind of love to which God calls us.  Share some ways you can practically live out these directives in your own life.

 

 

My Call to Action:

Based on how God has spoken to your heart today, complete the thought below:

Love the unlovable, difficult person so that….

Commit now to take the first steps in obedience to what you have heard.

It’s hard to believe we only have one week left!  You have been faithful to share from your heart.  Your past comments reveal God is faithfully answering our prayers  and doing a mighty work in and through our time together.  Please continue to share this week.  Be vulnerable.  Share how you have struggled with loving the unlovable…loving those who frustrate you…loving those who disappoint you….loving those who swoop in and take your parking place or cut you off in traffic!  Share and let’s celebrate success stories of how God has helped you truly love people that in your own strength you know you never could.

I will be praying for you throughout the week.

Blessings,