March 3, 2015

A Mom’s Prayers for Her Son (New Book & Giveaway)

You know my heart for prayer, and I know your hearts for prayer, so I could not wait to share this book with you!

Last year, I received an e-mail from a friend inviting me to contribute to Rob and Joanna’s new book, “A Mom’s Prayers for Her Son.” I couldn’t say yes fast enough because prayer, and more specifically, praying God’s Word, completely transformed my mother’s heart and changed our home.

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A few months ago, I shared with you Rob’s first book, “A Dad’s Prayers for His Daughter.” And I am even more excited to share today’s book because now you have a matched set…whether you have a son or daughter, a grandson or grandaughter, or a niece or nephew, you have access to beautiful, powerful prayers to pray.

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So many times we want to pray for our children, but we just don’t know how to pray or what to pray. This book teaches us how to pray for every area of their lives. And they fill the pages not only with prayer but also with stories (like the one I share about praying for my son, Bo) that help bring those prayers alive so you can see them at work in a real family.

I invited Joanna to stop by and share a message from her heart so that you could get to know her. So below, find a message from her heart to yours. At the end of her message, I invite you to leave a comment for a chance to win a copy of their book, “A Mom’s Prayers for Her Son.”

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Joanna, thank you for stopping by today.

Grab a Plate!

 A huge part of my life as a mom revolves around preparing food for the seven of us in my family. I create the shopping lists, shop the aisles of the grocery store, drive home and put it all away, and then create meals to put on the table from day to day. I try to keep each of the kid’s cravings in mind as I shop—chocolate milk, Honeycrisp apples, frozen fruit bars—because in some mysterious way, food says “love” to each of them.

We celebrate life together over food, too. Thanksgiving turkey and pie, Superbowl pizza and wings, birthday cake and ice cream–it’s impossible to separate our family’s connection with each other from the meals that we share.

This past summer we were thrilled to adopt our little boy. If we have ever had a reason to celebrate, it’s him! What’s tough, though, is that he has sensory processing issues with his mouth and food allergies as well. As much as we’ve embraced him into the heart of our family, he’s still on the outside looking in when it comes to sharing in our meals together. So many foods bring anxiety, tears, gagging, vomiting, itchy skin, or dangerous allergic reactions. The food=love equation isn’t working out so well for us!

As his mom I can become frustrated. His daily diet is better suited to a toddler than a big kid. His menu isn’t growing at the same pace as the rest of him. Even with therapy and persistence, progress is slow. He’s constantly hungry because hearty, filling foods are the hardest to swallow. I worry about the nutrients he’s missing out on, whether he’ll fit in at school, or if he’ll get sick. I worry that it will stay this way forever.

Watching him struggle reminds me, though, that I have areas where I’m slow to progress. Parts of my life and character that seem stuck in immaturity. Does a new social opportunity send me running back to the safety of familiar friends? Does humbling myself to admit my part in a marriage conflict make me choke? Do I hoard what’s on my “plate”, because fears about finances keep me from sharing what I have? Is the Bible so complex or confusing that I stick with simple, feel-good devotionals instead of in-depth study?

Just like I am eager to nourish my son and help him grow, God is eager to feed me—his daughter—and grow me into a woman of faith, wisdom, and love. The “food” he provides is the truth of his Word.

“…you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” (2 Timothy 3:15-17)

In fact, though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach you the elementary truths of God’s word all over again. You need milk, not solid food! Anyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is not acquainted with the teaching about righteousness. But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil. (Hebrews 5:12-14)

What are you hungry for today? A sense of purpose? A closer, more intimate marriage? A breakthrough with your stubborn teenager? A deeper knowledge of your gifts and talents and where to use them? Relief from the pain of injury or disease? Peace despite the wounds of abuse in your past? Freedom from addiction to food, social media, shopping, or a destructive relationship? God holds out his Word, with all of his power to transform, heal, and satisfy every longing in our hearts. He invites us to “taste and see that the Lord is good.” (Psalm 34:8)

The big question is this: What is keeping us from feasting at God’s table? Let’s pray today for an eager appetite for his Word. A new palate that savors the deeper truths of Christ. The courage to pick up our forks and knives and dig into the meat God has for us.

“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.” (Matthew 5:6)

Joanna, it has been a blessing to hear from your heart today. Thank you!

Friends, we would love to give away a copy of her new book, A Mom’s Prayers for Her Son,” so please leave a comment today sharing  what keeps you from “feasting at God’s table,” from spending a few minutes in quiet time with Him. And then share one step you can take toward changing that (getting up a few minutes earlier, taking the first five minutes of lunch hour to open God’s Word, bringing you Bible to carpool line, etc.). We will choose one name to win a copy of her book.

** Joanna Teigen and her husband, Rob, are the co-authors of 88 Great Daddy-Daughter Dates, A Dad’s Prayers for His Daughter, and A Mom’s Prayers for Her Son. She enjoys homeschooling, marriage mentoring, and life and laughter with their five children. She makes her home in West Michigan.

Blessings,

February 24, 2015

Giveaway with my friend Courtney DeFeo

Today I am so excited to introduce you to Courtney DeFeo. Courtney and I became friends through our dear friend Bobbie Wolgemuth. Bobbie poured her love and wisdom into our mother’s hearts over the years and completely transformed our hearts and homes. And Courtney’s new book, In This House, We Will Giggle,  is an outpouring of all that God has done in her mama’s heart. God gifted Courtney with amazing creativity, and she truly makes being a mom and spending time together as a family a JOY and DELIGHT! And she makes teaching our kids about God and living out God’s call to serve FUN!

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So enjoy this great post from Courtney. Be sure to read through to the end so you can enter our Giveaway. We will give away one signed copy of her book!

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Wearing Our Love

I’ve got a challenge for all us – moms, dads and kids. I want you to find a red marker or pen and get ready to give yourself a tiny red (temporary) tattoo in the shape of a heart. First, read this challenge. At the end, decide where you to create your reminder of love.

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Have you ever thought about how very important you are? YOU are God’s plan for this earth. It’s almost like his heart exploded with love and each of us gets a tiny piece of it.

Then, we get to love in a way that others experience God. We get a chance to walk the halls of school and our neighborhoods holding that heart so delicately, yet boldly.

I have two little girls that are like most little girls. They are walking the halls of school and having good days and bad days. Some days they are included and some days they are left out. Some days they feel beautiful and some days they feel just plain awful. They are made by a creator that loves them deeply. They are wonderful, caring, sweet and made for such greatness.

I love to remind them that they are God’s secret weapon. They walk into school with a choice. To be defeated or to impact others for God. They are representing God with every word and action. With one kind word or gesture, they can literally change someone’s day or school year.

Sometimes, they forget God is with them because they cannot see him. But he is there. He is near. He is often nudging them to do the next right thing.

This week, I am challenging my girls and each of you to find a place to draw his heart. You were created in His image and you get the chance to show others how He loves.

Maybe put it on your hand so you’ll remember to reach out to a lonely friend.

Maybe put it on your foot so you’ll remember to let an enemy go first in kickball.

Maybe put it behind your ear so you’ll remember to listen before you speak.

Maybe put it on your arm so you’ll remember to hug your sibling.

You matter to the creator of the universe, and I am so thankful you were made. The way you love will fill up your own heart – more than anything else in this world you can achieve or buy.

God loves you so very much. He’s right there with you every day. Represent him well!

-Courtney

Thank you, Courtney, for this GREAT challenge. To enter to win a signed copy of her book, leave a comment telling us where YOU will put your heart tattoo! Check back here Friday, February 27th, AT THE END OF THE COMMENTS SECTION, to see if you have won.

Courtney DeFeo is the creator of “ABC Scripture Cards” and “Light ‘Em Up and Conversation Cups”. She is the author of In This House, We Will Giggle: Making Virtues, Love and Laughter a Daily Part of Your Family Life. She believes our kids can light up the world. Her house is a wreck, and she hates to cook. She adores her hot, patient husband and her two spunky daughters. Connect with Courtney at courtneydefeo.com.

In This House, We Will Giggle offers parents a practical approach to instilling virtues in their children through laughter, rather than lecture. Designed to cover an entire year, each of the 12 chapters highlights one key virtue in developing a child’s character, along with insights to help infuse the virtue into everyday life. In This House, We Will Giggle teaches children to experience the goodness of God, the joy of following Jesus and the difference children can make in the lives of others.

Blessings,

January 12, 2015

Meet My Friend and Praying Mama Kari {w/Giveaway}

{Winners of New Year’s Giveaway listed at the end of today’s post}

Prayer is one of my biggest passions. I love praying prayers, writing prayers, and sharing prayers. That’s why I couldn’t wait to share Kari Kampakis and her new book, 10 Ultimate Truths Girls Should Know, with you. Kari has the same passion for prayer and praying for your children, and because of that, my heart connected with hers immediately.

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Below please find a message from Kari’s heart and ways you can connect with Kari and her new book. She also has graciously offered to give two of her books away. Read through to the end to find out how you can have a chance to win a copy of her book.

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A Prayer for Our Daughters

There is a lot involved in raising a daughter.

A lot of time.

A lot of love.

A lot of listening.

A lot of learning.

A lot of guidance.

A lot of giving.

A lot of observing.

And above all, a lot of praying.

I often remind myself that as much as I love my four girls, their Creator loves them more. He has plans for their lives that I’m supposed to enable, not interrupt. Consciously or not, I also have plans for my daughters’ lives. Sometimes what I want isn’t part of God’s vision.

That’s one of many reasons why I’m a praying mom, because I need divine insight. I need God opening my eyes, heart, mind, and soul to His will, His way, His perfect timing. It’s easy to trust God when all is good with my family. The real test of my faith, however, is how well I trust Him when my heart breaks for one of my children, or when I don’t understand why He’s allowed certain events to happen.

Fortunately, I’ve lived long enough to see God’s faithfulness in my life. I can look back and see clearly what Romans 8:28 means: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”

And when I remember what God has done for me, I find it easier to trust His plans for my daughters.

Following is a prayer I’ve written for moms of girls. I hope it’s helpful to you.

Dear Lord,

Thank you for the gift of my daughter May she light up her corner of the universe and radiate far and wide for You.

Shape her heart into the image of Jesus. Help her fall in love with Him. Fill her with a peace so deep and real that she craves the comfort of the Holy Spirit over fame and attention from the world.

Let her see herself through Your loving eyes. Help her recognize negative thoughts as the enemy’s voice and conquer them with truth. May she respect her body as a temple of the Holy Spirit and use it to glorify You.

Surround her with godly friends. When she is weak, let them be strong. Help them build each other up as sisters in faith. Let their joy and laughter be contagious. Let their eyes stay open to those who need a friend.

Protect her and help her discern right from wrong. Let her bravely serve Your purpose in her generation.

When she messes up, when she falls, when she feels helpless or discouraged, restore her with grace. Help her embrace her weaknesses as opportunities for You to shine and redeem her.

Protect her heart, Lord, and root her confidence in Jesus. In dating, academics, career, relationships, and other matters, make Your plan apparent. Give her a tender heart and a thick skin. Help her stay resilient to the world’s negativity, criticism, and judgment…yet never lose her love and hope for mankind.

Help me help her, Lord. Guide my steps so I can parent with courage, grace, wisdom, and love. Above all, help me love her well. Help me rejoice in the woman she’s becoming and trust Your vision for her.

I love my daughter with all my heart, mind, and soul. Please bless our relationship and keep our connection strong so that one day, when she is grown, we may call ourselves the best of friends.   

In Jesus’s name I pray. Amen.

Raising daughters is a challenge and a privilege. Today’s girls are tomorrow’s leaders, wives, mothers, and world changers. And while we don’t always the answers our daughters need, we know the One who does. And if we keep pointing them to God,  we’re bound to find peace in the journey.

Do you have special prayers for your daughters or a favorite Scripture you pray over them? Share one in the comments at the end of the post for a chance to receive a copy of Kari’s book for teen and tween girls! Stop back by this post on Friday and look toward the end of the comments for the announcement of the two winners.

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Kari Kampakis is the mom of four daughters and a blogger and newspaper columnist from Birmingham, Alabama. Her first book, 10 Ultimate Truths Girls Should Know,recently released through Thomas Nelson. Kari’s writing has been featured on HuffPost Parents and reflects her passion for family and God. Learn more by visiting Kari’s blog at karikampakis.com or connecting with her on  Facebook or Twitter.

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Below are the winners of the New Year’s giveaway.

I am extending the deadline to respond to Wednesday, January 14th. Please e-mail me at deuteronomysix@aol.com with your full name and mailing address so that I can mail you your gift. If you aren’t sure it’s you, please look at the date and time I list and check the comment to see if it is you.

I’ve decided to give away 9 gifts because so many of you replied!!

LIVING SO THAT winners:

Ann who posted on 1/1 at 8:29 am

Emily R. who posted on 1/1 at 9:20 am

Dawn Jenkins who posted on 1/1 at 9:48 am

HIDDEN JOY Winners:

Karen D. who posted on 1/1 at 10:25 am

Cindy who posted on 1/4 at 12:01 am

BRACELET winners:

Dana who posted on 1/1 at 10:55 am

Donna who posted on 1/1 at 12:;09 m

TARGET gift card winners:

Lesley who posted on 1/2 at 1:20 am

Deborah who posted on 1/2 at 11:23 am

Blessings,